David D. Burns quotes

Negative thinking patterns can be immensely deceptive and persuasive, and change is rarely easy. But with patience and persistence, I believe that nearly all individuals suffering from depression can improve and experience a sense of joy and self-esteem once again. (David D. Burns)
Cognitive therapy is based on the idea that when you change the way you think, you can change the way you feel and behave. In other words, if we can learn to think about other people in a more positive and realistic way, it will be far easier to resolve conflicts and develop rewarding personal and professional relationships. View quote
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Perfectionism becomes a badge of honor with you playing the part of the suffering hero. View quote
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Every time you feel depressed about something, try to identify a corresponding negative thought you had just prior to and during the depression. Because these thoughts have actually created your bad mood, by learning to restructure them, you can change your mood. View quote
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A poor self-image is the magnifying glass that can transform a trivial mistake or an imperfection into an overwhelming symbol of personal defeat. View quote
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Kindness is the cause of all anxiety. View quote
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Practically everybody knows what its like to feel anxious, worried, nervous, afraid, uptight, or panicky. Often, anxiety is just a nuisance, but sometimes it can cripple you and prevent you from doing what you really want with your life. But I have some great news for you: You can change the way you feel. View quote
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Regret has a purpose. It's like the oil light on the dashboard of your life, telling you something needs to be fixed. So fix it. And feel better. View quote
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When two people respect each other, the ability to be vulnerable and to reveal hurt feelings can create a powerful emotional connection that is the source of real intimacy and friendship. View quote
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Learning to accept failure on multiple levels is, to my way of thinking, the key to become a world-class therapist. But that means humility, and setting your ego aside, while you develop superb new technical skills. View quote
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Assert your right to make a few mistakes. If people can't accept your imperfections, that's their fault. (David D. Burns)
Perfection' is man's ultimate illusion. It simply doesn't exist in the universe.... If you are a perfectionist, you are guaranteed to be a loser in whatever you do. View quote
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Depression has been called the world's number one public health problem. In fact, depression is so widespread it is considered the common cold of psychiatric disturbances. But there is a grim difference between depression and a cold. Depression can kill you. View quote
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That's one of the peculiar things about bad moods - we often fool ourselves and create misery by telling ourselves things that simply are not true. View quote
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Depression can seem worse than terminal cancer, because most cancer patients feel loved and they have hope and self-esteem. View quote
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Most people do surprisingly poorly when dealing with a relative who is hurting, depressed, or anxious - we get defensive and try to solve the problem rather than finding the truth in what the person is saying. View quote
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You feel the way you do right now because of the thoughts you are thinking at this moment. View quote
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Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make you a far happier and more productive person. View quote
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You're not a bad person. But you sometimes do bad things. You know what that makes you? Human. View quote
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The best way to confront your fears it to stop avoiding the situation you're most afraid of. View quote
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Can you predict the future with absolute certainty? Your answer must be no. You have two options: You can either decide to accept yourself as an imperfect human being with limited knowledge and realize that you will at times make mistakes, or you can hate yourself for it. (David D. Burns)
You don't have to do anything especially worthy to create or deserve self-esteem; all you have to do is turn off that critical, haranguing, inner voice. View quote
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Don't apologize for what you think you did wrong. Apologize for what they think you did wrong. View quote
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Forgiving yourself, not guilt, increases personal accountability. View quote
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Learn to accept your limits and you'll become a happier person. View quote
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David D. Burns

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Occupation: American Psychiatrist
Born: September 19, 1942
Quotes count: 47
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