First, a good sex scene is about the exchange of emotions, not body fluids. In other words, what's going on physically is not really important. It's what's going on emotionally that's important. You use the physical attributes or setting, only as a means of anchoring the reader in the moment, but it's about what's going on between these two people. And that leads to the second principle, which is that a good sex scene can only happen between two unique and specific people...
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Gregory Palamas
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