Charles Baxter quotes

In truth, there are only two realities: the one for people who are in love or love each other, and the one for people who are standing outside all that. (Charles Baxter)
Every relationship has at least one really good day. What I mean is, no matter how sour things go, there's always that day. That day is always in your possession. That's the day you remember. You get old and you think: well, at least I had that day. It happened once. You think all the variables might just line up again. But they don't. Not always. I once talked to a woman who said, "Yeah, that's the day we had an angel around. View quote
Charles Baxter
Needing something is not the same thing as being interested in the thing itself. View quote
Charles Baxter
When you're in love you don't have to do a damn thing. You can just be. You can just stay quiet in the world. You don't have to move an inch. View quote
Charles Baxter
At its best, fiction is not a diversion but a means of knowing the world. View quote
Charles Baxter
In February, the overcast sky isn't gloomy so much as neutral and vague. It's a significant factor in the common experience of depression among the locals. The snow crunches under your boots and clings to your trousers, to the cuffs, and once you're inside, the snow clings to you psyche, and eventually you have to go to the doctor. The past soaks into you in this weather because the present is missing almost entirely. View quote
Charles Baxter
If you want to see the consequences of ideas, write a story. If you want to see the consequences of belief, write a story in which somebody is acting on the ideas or beliefs that she has. View quote
Charles Baxter
A novel is not a summary of its plot but a collection of instances, of luminous specific details that take us in the direction of the unsaid and unseen. View quote
Charles Baxter
I don't think that most women have to prove that they're real women. You live long enough, you graduate to being real. View quote
Charles Baxter
When all the details fit in perfectly, something is probably wrong with the story. View quote
Charles Baxter
At least with pets, and for all I know, people too, intelligence and quick-wittedness have nothing to do with a talent for being loved, or being kind, nothing at all, less than nothing. (Charles Baxter)
Everybody should customize their names. View quote
Charles Baxter
Gainfully unemployed, very proud of it, too. View quote
Charles Baxter
What's agitating about solitude is the inner voice telling you that you should be mated to somebody, that solitude is a mistake. The inner voice doesn't care about who you find. It just keeps pestering you, tormenting you--if you happen to be me--with homecoming queens first, then girls next door, and finally anybody who might be pleased to see you now and then at the dinner table and in bed on occasion. You look up from reading the newspaper and realize that no one loves you, and no one burns for you. View quote
Charles Baxter
When you break the heart of the philosopher, you must apply great force and cunning strategy, but when the deed is completed, the heart lies in great stony ruin at your feet. If you succeed in breaking it, the job is done once and for all. It will not be repaired. View quote
Charles Baxter
As the poet says, all happy couples are alike, it's the unhappy ones who create the stories. I'm no longer a story. Happiness has made me fade into real life. View quote
Charles Baxter
You know, there's something heartsick about parties like this. Look at us. We're all pretending to be smart, as if intelligence were the cure for our anguish. View quote
Charles Baxter
When I'm writing, I'm waiting to see somebody, and I'm waiting to hear them. It's almost like conjuring spirits out of the air, using your own imaginative instability. View quote
Charles Baxter
Because it is the Midwest, no one really glitters because no one has to, it's more of a dull shine, like frequently used silverware. View quote
Charles Baxter
[T]he astonishing purity of pain, how it will not be mixed with any other sensation. View quote
Charles Baxter
Before, I was always trying to make my relationships work by means of willpower and forced affability. This time I didn't have to strive for anything. A quality of ease spread over us. (Charles Baxter)
The problem with love and God, the two of them, is how to say anything about them that doesn't annihilate them instantly with the wrong words, with untruth. . . . In this sense, love and God are equivalents. We feel both, but because we cannot speak clearly about them, we end up–wordless, inarticulate-by denying their existence altogether, and, pfffffft, they die. View quote
Charles Baxter
What a midwesterner he was, a thoroughly unhip guy with his heart in the usual place, on the sleeve, in plain sight. View quote
Charles Baxter
You think that what I've told you is an anecdote. But really it isn't. It's my whole life. It's the only story I have. View quote
Charles Baxter
You are a real find and you keep me satisfied, up to a point. After all, I'm a malcontent and you can't change that. View quote
Charles Baxter