Abby Stein quotes

(On gender transition:) "It's hard, but it's possible." (Abby Stein)
[Talking about gender transition) I want to say here, in clear and bold words to all humans out there who are going through similer experiences, and especially these of Ultra-Orthodox background: "You can Do It!!! It is not going to be easy, but it is way easier than not transitioning. When you start to see the changes, and feel more comfortable with your body, you wouldn't stop loving yourself." View quote
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There is no straight way to not being straight. We (Queer individuals) all have different stories. View quote
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The most effective path to resistance is when the persecuted, in whichever way it is, gather to fight back, together. View quote
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Being trans in some ways is very similar to being an atheist, in that some people don't grasp it. People that come from different backgrounds just [say], "What do you mean you don't believe in God?” They don't get you. To them [religion] is just so obvious, and I feel like I keep on having that with gender, also. Some people just have in their mind very firm ideas of gender, and they just can't get it into their head. View quote
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Society expects trans women to be perfect the way they expect all women to be perfect. View quote
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You're saying God is all made up, but okay, who cares? People say, "I can't pray because I feel like I'm talking to myself.” The rabbi would say, "Pray! That's so good. Go talk to yourself.”. View quote
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People use religion, dogma, community as an excuse to justify their own intolerance, or their own phobia from something that doesn't fit into their conceived notions of gender and of identity. View quote
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I wanted to show that if you claim being trans is unacceptable in traditional Judaism, well, here is a community that is not just okay with accepting me as I am, but is celebrating with me, rejoicing with me. What I'm hoping is that by sharing my story, others in the same situation will realize that you can have your name changed in a synagogue. There are so many synagogues where you can't, but there are also those where you can - the Jewish Reform movement, the Conservative movement. Within Orthodoxy, there's still a long way to go. Every time something like this is done, it's one step closer to acceptance for everyone. View quote
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When and if, all the Jews, Muslims, LGBTQIA, People of Color, People of less privileged socio-economic status, and so on, with the help of allies, gather to cry out loud: "WE RESIST” there is nothing we cannot accomplish! View quote
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I say to a lot of people who struggle [with coming out] - they're always afraid how it's going to affect their family - and to me it's always family is really important, but there has to be a 'you' that can be part of a family. If there's no 'you,' [you can't] be part of the family. (Abby Stein)
People exotic-ise you [trans individuals) in a weird way. They conflate sexuality and gender, which have nothing to do with each other. If you date women, it's like, ‘Oh, you like women, so you wanted to become one'. If you like guys, it's ‘Oh, you're gay, but you didn't want to be, so you transitioned'. View quote
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It's past talking time. The time to say: ‘We'll pray, and we'll be fine' is long over. View quote
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I loved the way Judaism does life cycle events. I loved the idea of having one day of the week off. (Even though, if I don't believe, there's no reason why it would be Saturday and not Tuesday). I related to Jewish music, to the food, and even the spirituality part, I'll admit it. View quote
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I always say: I believe in Judaism more than I believe in god. [Interviewer: What do you mean by that? ] Belief is maybe a very strong word. I'd say I relate to Judaism more. View quote
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[Blogging] helps me to get out my feelings, get out my emotions. [When I started] I was mainly writing for my own sake. It really helped me articulate what I think, to get my thoughts out. I like to get feedback sometimes-although there's a lot of hate, there's always good advice. I found it really helpful for myself. Writing always helps. View quote
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Personally I also identify as a Jewish Atheist, which is that from a philosophical perspective I think that there is no reason to claim that the world has a divine creator, or divine providence. However in ways of relating to something more than surface human level, I connect to an idea of deeper understanding, a connection between all of humanity, and a universal connection with everything in existence. In my experience, the Jewish Tradition as well as the Hasidic Tradition (a mystical Jewish movement founded by my ancestor the Baal Shem Tov in the 18th century) via the Neo-Hasidic teachings, offers a lot of insight. View quote
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I have mood swings, but I can deal with that by watching Netflix and eating pickles. View quote
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Some religions might have at least a facade of a very anti-LGBT or very non-progressive culture so to speak -- or like you can't be religious and be whatever. I'm telling you from experience that yes you can,” ... "You might have to make it work but thankfully we live in a place and in a time when there's a lot of communities with a lot of places that you can find support. View quote
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To some extent, leaving the community was even harder than transitioning. I had no idea what I was getting into. I didn't know anyone, couldn't speak the language, and didn't have an education. I didn't know how to dress. I didn't know how to talk. I remember the first time walking into a Starbucks, I was like, 'OK, what's happening here?' The culture shock is just in every level, every way. ... It's like being an immigrant in your own country. View quote
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(on the Women's March:) "We are coming together with unity, not uniformity." (Abby Stein)

Abby Stein

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Photo: Pax Ahimsa Gethen, CC BY-SA 4.0
Occupation: Author
Born: October 1, 1991
Quotes count: 21
Wikipedia: Abby Stein