Ayobami Adebayo quotes

'Stay with Me' started out being very political, largely because I'm a little obsessed with politics. (Ayobami Adebayo)
I established my first writing routine when I was 13. The school year had just ended, and I'd won a stack of books for being the best student in a number of subjects. The pile included several 60-leaved notebooks that I decided to fill with short stories. View quote
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My mother used to laugh that if they asked me to clean up my room, I would spend so much time reading every tiny bit of paper, a receipt or whatever, instead of throwing it in the trash. View quote
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I'm still startled when people ask me for writing advice. View quote
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Having children does become tied to a sense of identity and our value as humans. View quote
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I am interested in the idea that people should be able to define their own happiness. View quote
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I have always been very interested in the idea of loneliness and the presumption that romantic relationships are supposed to rid you of that. View quote
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I think a large part of being human centers on the state of being alone, and we try to mitigate that in so many ways. View quote
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When I was in my late teens, a couple of friends passed away suddenly. This was quite distressing, but after a while, as tends to happen when one is once or twice removed from grief, I stopped thinking about them all the time. View quote
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I come from a part of Nigeria where a lot of value is placed on implicit communication. The 'well brought up' child is the one who can pick up nonverbal cues from adults and interpret them correctly. View quote
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I'd always been interested in Nigeria's past. (Ayobami Adebayo)
There is a strong view in Nigeria, as in many other cultures, that a marriage is not complete without children. I don't agree; I'm wary of the idea that people have to have some particular functionality in order to be full members of society. View quote
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Never lend people money you can't afford to give them as a gift. View quote
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There's this idea that at the lowest rungs of the social ladder in an African family is a childless woman - and the lowest rung of all is a motherless child. View quote
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To be transported into another world is my very favourite part of reading. View quote
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When I started working on 'Stay With Me,' I thought it would take two years to complete the novel. View quote
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I think there is a dissonance between how much is expected of you as a young person, whether you are a man or a woman: you are supposed to go to university; you get a master's degree, maybe two, particularly if you come from the middle class. View quote
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There is a strong view in Nigeria, as in many other cultures, that a marriage is not complete without children. I don't agree; I'm wary of the idea that people have to have some particular functionality in order to be full members of society. I think it's a very dangerous idea. Humans are humans and they are worthy of respect... View quote
Ayobami Adebayo

Ayobami Adebayo

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Photo: Tomiwa Ajayi, CC BY-SA 4.0
Occupation: Nigerian Writer
Born: January 29, 1988
Quotes count: 18
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